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Re: Psychological Trauma - Salvaille

From: Serge Salvaille <sergesa@sympatico.ca>
Date: Mon, 19 Nov 2001 17:21:40 -0500
Fwd Date: Mon, 19 Nov 2001 23:22:21 -0500
Subject: Re: Psychological Trauma - Salvaille

 >From: Greg Sandow <greg@gregsandow.com>
 >To: UFO UpDates - Toronto <ufoupdates@home.com>
 >Subject: Re: Psychological Trauma
 >Date: Sun, 18 Nov 2001 19:52:33 -0500

 >>From: Kevin Randle <KRandle993@aol.com>
 >>Date: Fri, 9 Nov 2001 10:17:42 EST
 >>Subject: Re: Psychological Trauma
 >>To: ufoupdates@home.com

Hello Greg and Kevin,

A very interesting post.


 >Besides, abductees who feel angry or frightened have raw
 >feelings, easily understood. They don't have to theorize about
 >what's going on. They just say, "I felt frightened because I was
 >helpless. And I was angry because I felt used." Abductees who
 >feel positive usually feel that way because they have theories.
 >"Yes, I was frightened, but I thought the aliens were here to do
 >us good." And as I've said, that kind of discussion is
 >discouraged. Equally, abductees wouldn't be encouraged to say,
 >"I felt used, and that's because the aliens only care about
 >themselves." That, too, would be speculation, and wouldn't be a
 >popular line of thought at Budd's groups. (Believe it or not,
 >but that's what I've observed.) The point, in any case, is that
 >you don't have to theorize to explain why you feel negative
 >emotions, so those are easier to express.


The purpose of group therapy is to help people with (in this
case) common experiences live normal lives.

Perceived abductees do not refer to the people responsible for
their presence in the group?

It would be very surprising that any group therapist would
refuse such a connection. After all, the victim's hope resides
in resolving the issue with the tormentor. Anger and despair
stem from helplessness: the soul topples over the edge when you
surrender your fate to the torturer.

The key is you and the SOB responsible for your feelings, the
link between the two of you, the recalled abject submission you
couldn't help to feel and, somewhere deep inside, the guilty
need to do it again.

I believe anything should go if it leads to some serenity. If
hating aliens or loving them give you this edge, go for it.

But discourage any attempt to get a grasp on _your_ reality?

Hair raising.


Serge Salvaille

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